LET’S GET IT RIGHT: USING CORRECT PRONOUNS AND NAMES Gender, Pronouns and Names We use people’s pronouns and names frequently and in regular, every day communication, both verbally and in writing. [...] Because names and pronouns are the two ways people call and refer to others, they are personal and important. [...] This sends a message to them that you want to know their accurate name and pronouns and it gives you the information you need to get it right. [...] You should also ask whether it’s okay or not to use their name and pronoun in communication home to parents and family members and during parent-teacher conferences. [...] Be careful not to make assumptions about someone’s pronouns and name and at the same time, be sensitive to students who may not feel ready or comfortable to disclose this information.